Hi, I’m Bobby
ADHD Nerd Dad of two amazing children on a journey of healing.
I’m currently working on designs for apparel and merch that highlight some of the lessons I’ve learned along the way on my journey and serve as reminders for myself and hopefully for others. Check out the latest designs below.
Early on
Until I was 9 years old, I lived in an abusive, neglectful household. The only safe spaces I had were my sister and my mind. I’m learning the lessons that my little impressionable mind internalized and working to replace them with new ones. I spent the rest of my adolescent life in foster care, thankfully with the same family and alongside my sister. I lived most of my life unaware of if not in outright denial that the trauma I endured in my youth had impacted my life, and yet it did.
Current
I’m now confronting the trauma I endured and learning why I do the things I do and how even though it is not my fault, it is my responsibility. I have two young children that I want to illuminate a better way for. My hope is that this site and the merch I create will serve as an outlet for my journey and maybe even help someone else along theirs.